GamingQueen88 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Adopting a child takes too much money and too much time. For me adopting will never replace having a child of my own. I am in pain from being infertile due to PCOS. My no-good, drug addict cousin can get pregnant and carry a baby to term, but I can't, and it makes me feel like I'm being punished. I'm considering not getting married because I don't want to put my love through it. You probably will never know what it's like, it's worse to me than anything.

liverjen (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Brien I think that the fact that you still remember the pain, even though you became pregnant is very touching. I find that most people forget what it was like never to have been pregnant. You are a special person.

mhardy1977 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I am nowhere near unfit but you seem like you need some help in your head to even such horrible comments on a page where people are going since they are in pain and suffering with not being able to have children! Get a life scarab55605!

scarab55605 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Been there already.You seem rather unfit so it's good you can't contaminate some innocent kid with your bile.

scarab55605 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Not being able to reproduce is not terminal and you may come to see it as a relief... someday.I commend you for comprehending that one's own offspring are not replaceable and for realizing that motherhood is NOT transferrable.Glad to see know you don't plan on snatching some other vulneralbe woman's newborn.

scarab55605 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

What planet are you on?

mhardy1977 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Thats sad to write this is to someone going through this myself I find you dispicable you piece of garbge! Lay yo0ur head down on your pillow and think about the worst pin youve ever had and triple it!

Allicia0805 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I have not been diagnosed with infertility yet! However i lost my baby girl at 17weeks pregnant in 05 and have been trying ever since then, to get pregnant with no luck! So i believe i am infertile and it hurts so much!

mrsCfinn (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

This is one of the most ignorant things I have EVER heard!!! Like adopting a baby is like going to the supermarket or something??? Do you have ANY idea of the costs of adopting a child??!!! ESPECIALLY a child from a foreign country???!!! Do you have ANY idea of the pain couples experiencing infertility?? How about second infertility?? Do you even know what it is???!!! I don't even know why I'm wasting life replying to your idiocy... it makes me sick.

scarab55605 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

There are millions of genuinely orphaned kids all over Africa, why not contribute something of value instead of being selfishly focused on your own shortcomings... Stop focusing on what others are doing/thinking. Get your own life already!